You know that feeling you can’t seem to escape when you’re attracted to someone, and you just want to be noticed? Maybe you wear your favorite perfume or cologne and you put on that color that makes your eyes pop. Maybe you’re the best version of yourself when they’re around: funny, intelligent, put together, accomplished…
We’ve all been there.
When we want to be
chosen by another person, we tend to
work really hard
to gain their approval or acceptance.
This happens a lot in sports. It kind of has to. If you want to make Varsity, you have to prove yourself to Coach. If you want that scholarship to play at your dream school, your stats and skills have to be up to par.
But then, that magical moment happens:
you’re chosen. You start dating that guy or girl you’ve had your eye on. That school calls you up because they’ve seen your tapes and they want you on the team–you’re in. And now, while the pressure never fully disappears, you actually get to enjoy yourself again.
Being chosen changes everything.
Thankfully, there’s an
even better kind of belonging than that of romance or athletics, and you don’t have to do anything to earn it. Enter: Jesus.
When you’re in Christ, you’ve been chosen by God, and he gives your life meaning and promise–more than you can imagine.
In
John 15:16, Jesus says: “You did not choose me, but I chose you. I appointed you to go and produce fruit and that your fruit should remain, so that whatever you ask the Father in my name, he will give you.”
You’re accepted and appointed because God chose you… not the other way around! Once you’ve been chosen by God (which is true for anyone who is a Jesus-follower), everything you do can flow from a place of
approval
and
acceptance.
Now, you obey God and produce spiritual fruit not because you’re striving to earn his favor, but because
you’re delighting in his grace!
You can’t gain God’s approval by attending Bible studies or going to church or using verses in your Instagram captions. You can’t earn God’s acceptance by leading a ministry or saying all the right Christian things or trying as hard as you can to avoid sin. The only thing that makes us right with God is the
forgiveness and righteousness found in the
blood of Jesus Christ. God chooses those who know they need what Jesus did on the cross (Romans 3:22-26)!
Here’s the best part: God will never un-choose you. Your girlfriend or boyfriend might break up with you, or Coach might bench you for the rest of the season… you might get fired from your dream job or rejected for a loan… But when you’re chosen by God, it’s a done deal (Romans 8:31-39).
You now have
purpose (producing spiritual fruit) and power (access to the Father through Jesus) that can
never be taken away!
The greatest source of
confidence and
identity is this: you didn’t choose God…
he chose you. There’s
nothing good you can do to earn it, and there’s
nothing bad you can do to lose it. You simply get to respond to that security by following God in faith and obedience.
Here at
Fellowship of Christian Athletes, it’s our goal to encourage and come alongside you in your walk with the Lord–in sports, in school, and in life.
Come say hi!
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