It’s the end of the season, or the semester, or the year, and you’re thinking about setting new goals. What’s the first thing that comes to mind? Bettering yourself athletically, intellectually, or financially? Relationships? Faith and/or spirituality? No matter which category you start with, there is a way to set goals that honors God.
At the end of the day, we all want to be the best version of ourselves. On and off the court, field, or track, we want to feel like we’re fully alive and “crushing” life. God wants that for you, too!
He created you with specific, amazing talents and dispositions, and those are to be celebrated and pursued.
Unfortunately, many people lose sight of their Maker in going after their life goals, and miss out on the joy of knowing Jesus in the process.
So, how does one set goals and seek the Lord every step of the way? Here are three things to think on:
Wanting to be the lead scorer on your team isn’t bad, but if it becomes a top priority, it’s worth asking, “why?” Is that title going to bring God glory? Or is obtaining this goal all about making you look really good–leading to pride, boasting, and better social media posts?
Matshona Dhliwayo, philosopher, entrepreneur, and author, is known for saying: “If you show off do not get upset when God doesn’t show up.”
1 Corinthians 13:4-5 describes love (what every believer is called to) as that which
doesn’t boast, isn’t proud, and isn’t self-seeking. It’s not a good look for Christians when we slip into these kinds of self-obsessive behaviors.
For example, if a fitness goal is on your radar, a better focus may be to “discipline [your] body and keep it under control” like 1 Corinthians 9:27 teaches, so that Christ is magnified in how you care for the body he’s given you. God doesn’t care whether or not your body looks perfect… he just wants your obedience.
This goes for any and all goals. Before writing it on your bathroom mirror, ask yourself, “Who am I trying to glorify with this goal? God, or myself?”
Remember when you were a kid in the checkout line at the grocery store, and you saw the one thing you needed most in life: candy? When your parent said “no” for the hundredth time and you finally realized no amount of bargaining or pleading would change their mind, you likely reacted with what we like to call a “temper tantrum.”
Newsflash: adults have these too, when they don’t get what they want.
What if you break your leg mid-season and can’t beat last year’s PR? What if your car gets totaled and you can’t end the year with a padded savings account? What will your reaction be if it turns out your goal is just out-of-reach?
While it’s foolish to set a goal with no intention of seeing it through to the end, it’s just as unwise to think that we are in control of the outcome. As Proverbs 16:9 says, “A person’s heart plans his way,
but the Lord determines his steps." (CSB).
Here is a warning to check your heart while goal-setting. For instance, desiring to grow your savings is all good and fine, but if that becomes more important than knowing and being known by Jesus, it’s a flag on the play.
Anything that takes priority over intimacy with God is what the Bible calls an idol. Tim Keller says this about idolatry: “An idol is anything more important to you than God, anything that absorbs your heart and imagination more than God, and anything that you seek to give you what only God can give.”
We are all guilty of this.
If your sports performance or athletic physique has absorbed your heart and imagination more than God, it might be time to realign your priorities.
After you’ve created a new goal, take a moment to pause and consider whether that thing is more important to you right now than your relationship with Jesus. Can you honestly say that knowing him is better than accomplishing your goals?
With these three questions in mind, you’ll be equipped to create and crush goals that are fun, challenging, and God-honoring.
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