Better Together

PNW FCA Ministry • January 6, 2022

“Lean on me, when you’re not strong, and I’ll be your friend. I’ll help you carry on!”

The lyrics to this old, classic song might seem cliché, but they ring true for every culture, race, gender, and age throughout history. We all need someone to lean on.


It’s difficult to remember a world where our ability to connect wasn’t dependent on the battery level of our phones. We’re living in a time where isolation is a normal experience for many people. Thanks to technology and social media, we’re constantly connected digitally, but the rise in mental health complications suggests that we might actually be
more alone than ever before.

God's Design

From the beginning, God knew that humans are better together. This is why God created Eve--because Adam needed companionship and help. But our need for connection goes way deeper than just marriage. We are inherently relational, and cannot thrive without friendship and community found in a local church or Christian gathering.


If you’ve ever had a friend show up with spontaneous take-out, give you a ride when your car was in the shop, or offer a hug at just the right time, you know what a game-changer
true friendship can be. In the same way, athletes who compete in team sports all agree: there’s nothing more threatening to the competition than a team who’s in-sync on and off the court/field.


This is even more true in
Christian community. The Bible refers to the global church (meaning, everyone who follows Jesus) as the body of Christ. Romans 12 teaches us that followers of Jesus should function like a human body. This truth is further explained in 1 Corinthians 12. We all represent different parts of the body, with different gifts and strengths, and all of them are necessary!


So, when you’re not connected to Christian community (like a church, small group, Bible study, or campus/school ministry), you miss out on benefiting from others’ strengths, encouraging others with your gifts, and having people to mourn and rejoice with.

The Cure For Loneliness

Not having strong relationships can be deadly. Loneliness is attributed to greater rates of depression, anxiety, decreased immunity, and cognitive decline later in life. Yikes!


Every person needs rich, satisfying relationships where they are deeply known and loved. If you’re a Christian, you need to be known by friends who will encourage your heart with God’s Word during hard times, and call you out in love when you’re straying from the truth.


Believers in the New Testament were especially good at this whole intentional community thing. Check out Acts 2:42-47:


"And they devoted themselves to the apostles' teaching and the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers. And awe came upon every soul, and many wonders and signs were being done through the apostles. And all who believed were together and had all things in common. And they were selling their possessions and belongings and distributing the proceeds to all, as any had need. And day by day, attending the temple together and breaking bread in their homes, they received their food with glad and generous hearts, praising God and having favor with all the people. And the Lord added to their number day by day those who were being saved."


The early church not only got together throughout the week, but they knew when someone had a need, and didn’t blink an eye when it came time to meet that need. They were loving Jesus and loving each other, eating good food, encouraging each other with Scripture and prayer, and probably laughing a lot.


While it might sound too good to be true, this kind of
authentic, thoughtful community is available and possible for you too. If you’re not already a part of a thriving church or Christian group, it might seem daunting to find and join one. Making friends is easy when you’re a child, but for some reason it gets a little tricky as we age. Here are some ways to begin seeking out a life-giving community:


  • Search for a church
    in your city. This can be as simple as opening up Google and typing in some key words, or sending out a few texts to Christian friends in your area to get some recommendations.
  • Gather a few friends for an informal Bible study. It doesn’t have to be fancy: make some coffee, find a reading plan on the YouVersion Bible App, and take turns sharing what you’re learning about God.
  • Find someone (on Social Media, from school or work, or at your church) who looks/talks/acts/lives like Jesus. Ask them to get together to hear their story and find out how they’re pursuing the Lord in Christian community.
  • Connect with someone at the Fellowship of Christian Athletes. We’re passionate about helping you grow in relationship with Jesus Christ and his church.


You weren’t made to do life alone. God’s design for us is this:
we are better together!

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When Pat Bailey gazes from his back porch in Corvallis, Oregon, he witnesses a range of breathtaking views. Literally, a mountain range of them. On a clear day, he can see the Three Sisters, a trio of volcanic peaks, each exceeding 10,000 feet, that are part of the greater Cascade Range extending from northern California to British Columbia. Turning slightly to the north, he can see Mount Jefferson, another peak with a 10,000-foot apex. And on some days, when the air and atmosphere are just right, he can see the majestic pinnacle of Mount Hood, the tallest peak in Oregon at 11,249 feet. Such grandeur is a constant reminder of why he and his wife, Susan, have remained in Oregon for 45 years after moving there from Idaho in 1978 when Bailey got a job at a local high school. “We thought we’d be in Oregon a year,” he says. “And here it is, 40-plus years later, we’re still in Oregon. ... We’re an hour away from the coast. Or if we want to go to the mountains, we’re an hour and a half away from the mountains. It’s beautiful. Personally, I think it's the prettiest place in the country.” Bailey isn’t a state tourism official. He’s a baseball coach. And over a remarkable 42-year coaching career, he has reached summits—in the world of athletics—similar to those he sees outside his window. In 1995, after posting a .625 winning percentage over 14 seasons at Williamette and West Linn high schools, he became the head coach of George Fox University, a Christian school near Portland. Over 12 seasons, Bailey compiled a 353-158 record, won eight Northwest Conference Coach of the Year awards, and led the 2004 team to the NCAA Division III national championship—ultimately becoming the winningest coach in school history. In 2007, Pat Casey, the legendary head coach at Oregon State who had preceded Bailey as coach at George Fox, invited Bailey to join his staff as an assistant coach. The Beavers had just won back-to-back national championships. It was a remarkable opportunity. But Bailey had a proviso. “I can’t come unless you let me run Bible studies and pray with our guys,” Bailey told Casey. “Pat,” Casey responded, “that’s one of the reasons why I want you to come here.” Bailey accepted the offer. “I've always considered my job a mission field.” During his time at Oregon State, Bailey helped the Beavers program reach the College World Series (CWS) three more times, including winning the 2018 national championship with a team that featured seven All-Americans and six Major League Baseball draft picks, including three first-rounders. Oregon State’s NCAA title that season wasn’t a shocker. The previous year’s team was ranked No. 1 in the country entering the CWS and finished 56-6 (.903), the best winning percentage in NCAA Division I baseball since Texas posted a .908 mark in 1982. Most of the team’s key players returned in 2018, setting up the historic season. For Bailey, it was extra gratifying because he hand-selected the players. As the team’s recruiting coordinator, he looked for individuals with strong character, humility, and classroom diligence. Bailey practiced what he preached. In 2012, he won the annual American Baseball Coaches Association Ethics in Coaching Award. “The most important thing that we did ... [was] build men,” he says. “We’re in the men-building business. That’s what coaching should be. It’s not about wins and losses; it’s about man-building. And if you do the man-building part, wins and losses take care of themselves. Because culture is everything. Culture eats strategy for breakfast. Everybody has great strategy until they get punched in the mouth. But your culture is who you are and what you’re about.” When Casey retired after the 2018 national championship, Bailey took over as the interim head coach and led the 2019 Beavers to a 36-20-1 record, including the program’s 10th postseason appearance during his tenure. His top star that season was catcher Adley Rutschman, whom the Baltimore Orioles selected with the No. 1 overall pick in the 2019 MLB draft. After the season, Bailey applied for the head coach position although he realized, at age 63, he likely wasn’t going to get it. Instead, the school hired Mitch Canham, the manager of the Arkansas Travelers (the Seattle Mariners’ Double-A minor league affiliate) and a former Oregon State star who helped the Beavers win their consecutive titles in 2006-07. When Canham asked Bailey to remain on staff for 2020, Bailey obliged. But a lifetime of baseball wear-and-tear was catching up to him. He had ulnar collateral ligament reconstruction (“Tommy John surgery”) in 2010 and knee surgery in 2011. In 2022, an MRI revealed arthritis in both hips that might require double hip replacement surgery in the future. Shortly before the 2020 season started, Bailey had major shoulder surgery, and the painful recovery process took about eight months. Oregon State played only 14 games before the COVID-19 pandemic wiped out the remainder of the season. Bailey admits he was “thankful” for the unexpected break because of his post-surgery pain. But in August 2020, he was let go and landed in a new, though perhaps fortuitous, season. “I just thought, ‘OK, I really don’t know how much longer I can keep coaching,’” he says. “Because [with] baseball, you have to be able to throw [batting] practice, and you have to be able to swing a fungo and just all those things you have to do to coach.” Call it a new chapter of life. He has always been a hard worker, thanks to his father instilling a strong work ethic in him. He started working in tire centers and gas stations when he was 14 years old, and he’s not about to slow down now. “There’s nowhere in the Bible where it says you’re supposed to retire,” he says. So when Ryan Johnston, FCA’s Pacific Northwest Regional vice president, reached out to Bailey to discuss the possibilities of full-time sports ministry, the longtime coach said, “I’m in.” Bailey is now FCA’s Multi-Area Director for the Williamette Valley region, which extends from Salem to Eugene and out to the coast. He is also on the coaches development team of FCA Baseball Oregon. In his home office, Bailey has two verses posted. One is Matthew 9:37-38, where Jesus tells His disciples, “The harvest is plentiful but the workers are few. Ask the Lord of the harvest, therefore, to send out workers into his harvest field.” The other is the prayer of Jabez in 1 Chronicles 4:10: “Oh, that you would bless me and enlarge my territory!” So far, so good. When Bailey started, he was one of five Williamette Valley staff members. Now there are 10. “I want to advance our territory here in this area,” he says. “That’s my sole goal, to get into more schools and have an impact on young people.” As for a potential return to coaching? The 67-year-old Bailey demurs. He has turned down other college offers after leaving Oregon State, mainly for family reasons. He and Susan are relishing time with their two grown children and three grandkids. Bailey’s daughter, who is a part-time administrative assistant for him, and her family also live in Corvallis, and his son’s family lives about 70 minutes away. “Unless Jesus came into my house, sat on my couch and said, ‘Pat, you have to leave Oregon,’ I’m not leaving,” he says. “We’re really tight as a family. We do a lot of stuff together.” So Bailey continues to work hard, like he’s always done. But these days, instead of teaching players how to produce at the plate, he trains coaches and athletes how to produce—and reproduce—as disciples of Christ. He leads a weekly Huddle at Western Oregon University; trains groups in E3—FCA’s discipleship course (“Engage. Equip. Empower.”); and helps guide local Student Athletic Leadership Teams (SALT). “I just love being around young people and doing stuff like that,” he says. “It’s not people my age that are going to change this country. 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